Clarity in Overwhelm: Rethinking Your Visibility Approach
Soulful Visibility As The Antidote To Hustle
Dear Visionary Woman,
If you feel that your visibility efforts are scattered, draining your energy, frustrated that you have no idea if what you are doing is going to work (especially online), I want you to know that you are not alone.
When I feel like this it can often physically manifest as a tightening in my belly and my jaw clenching as the frustration rises until I want to scream! When you put all of yourself into your writing//your offerings and it looks like it is falling on deaf ears it can be so demoralising.
This feeling can lead to thoughts like:
Why am I even bothering?
I am so tired of not being seen and heard.
Is all this effort really worth it?
This isn’t even working, I should just give up, nobody would care if I stopped today.
Nobody reads my work because nobody comments, what’s the point?
You would think that as someone who guides others in their visibility to move out of misalignment and into alignment so that they are seen and heard by those they are uniquely here to serve, that I would have this completely sorted out. And most of the time I do, but every now and then when I am in my Luteal and Winter phase, or just plain tired, I can sink into feeling pretty disillusioned with the whole being visible online thing.
I can’t tell you the amount of times that I have had to have a chat with myself because I have managed to convince myself I really “should” be on more than one platform, I “should” post more essays, attend all the things and pay attention to the advice of experts that I know mean well but just aren’t aligned with my approach to visibility.
I find this happens to me when I begin comparing where I think I should be by now versus where I actually am and also when I try to control the outcome of my visibility actions rather than just trusting in my process.
I have seen over the years that there can be this narrative that if you simply show up consistently and follow all the advice available to you from others that have had success in being visible and attracting clients - or subscribers on here - that you too will make it and magically become visible to exactly the right people at the right time.
But that is an oversimplification of the process of being visible.
You likely have to overcome some pretty big limiting beliefs that you never knew you had, some conditioning around what you are capable of to be visible and, in my personal opinion, the big one - you need to have strong foundations to build off, you need to be confident and clear on your why, your mission, your vision, how what you offer is the solution and most importantly, who you are uniquely here to serve and how your gifts and strengths complement their need to overcome their challenges or manifest their desires in this life.
And here’s the thing they will all tell you, you still need to be visible whilst doing this work, but do you?
It’s exhausting though isn’t it? This feeling of being pulled in a million directions, wondering if any of it matters, especially when you have tried to just “show up” and it hasn’t felt right, as though you are forcing yourself to be visible because someone else says you need to.
What if how you feel is a potent invitation, an opportunity to press pause, to step back from the “shoulds” and the struggle, and to truly rethink your approach to visibility? Because the overwhelm you're feeling, the scattered energy, the sense that you're fighting an uphill battle, it's often a signal that you're trying to force yourself into a way of being visible that simply doesn't resonate with your deepest, most natural energy.
That natural energy, the way you are truly meant to shine, is rooted in what I call your unique energetic blueprint, your Soul Signature for visibility. What if unlocking the clarity and flow you crave comes from understanding this blueprint?
This unique energetic blueprint, your Soul Signature for visibility, is rooted in the powerful archetypal energy that exists within you. Think of it like an innate frequency you carry – the authentic way you are meant to shine when it comes to sharing your gifts with the world. It's the specific archetypal energy within you that, when expressed in your visibility, wishes to be for your highest benefit and for the benefit of those you are here to serve.
Think of it as an unveiling, it has always been there and you have probably connected with it before, like the time when you were visible and it just felt right, you couldn’t explain it but you felt good, really good when doing it that way and what you said really resonated with people.
The thing is, you don’t really know if that was you or the advice you followed, but since then it has been hard to shine in the same way.
When you begin to explore your visibility through this lens, listening to the quiet wisdom of your Soul Signature, it's like coming home to yourself. The path forward starts to feel intuitively right. This journey often involves a process of gently embodying this authentic energy, shedding the layers of conditioning and “shoulds” that have felt heavy. It’s about finding a focus that feels instinctively aligned, allowing you to build a visibility approach that doesn't drain you, but actually nourishes your energy and effortlessly attracts the people you're truly meant to serve.
To start exploring this for yourself and taking the first step into this concept, perhaps consider the following journal prompt:
What would it take for you to align with your inner self and allow your outer expression (your visibility) to be a true reflection of that?
I would love to hear your insights or thoughts if you feel called to share them in the comments.
If this idea of soulful visibility, guided by your own energetic blueprint, resonates deeply with you, know that there is a path to clarity and flow that feels entirely natural and sustainable. It begins with understanding your unique Soul Signature for visibility.
If you're ready to stop fighting against your natural energy and step into a visibility that feels like coming home, learn more about how my Visibility Rebirth Mentorship can guide you through your Visibility Rebirth.
With warmth and gentle insight,
Katie, The Visibility Witch xxx
PS: If you know someone in your sacred Circle would benefit from the point of view shared in this post and you are called to do so, please do share it with them.